Spoilt Adult Step Daughter
My partner and i have been living together for two years, I have two adult children who do not live at home and he has a daghter who also lives else where.
Unfortnatley my SD at 27 with her own property and a good job is a Daddys girl, we have got on well in the past and she gets on great with my children to the point that they socialise together. Recentley she has had a few financeal problems and has just come to stay with us, with her dog too!!, her dad said its just for a week but my daughter has told me it is for the whole month. I am really angry and feel that neither my Step daughter or her father have been honest with me, he will not say anything to her or ask her to confirm how long she is staying, her dog is a nusience but again he said"shes sensitive about any issues with the dog" . He has always bailed her out, even to the extent that he sold his property so she could purchase her flat and we have to rent!!
He even took her for a weeks holiday just the two of them to Barbados when we had just got together, they are always also messaging each other on their mobiles.
It really really gets on my nerves, its great he's a good dad BUT its just to much and im fed up with it. My SD also says she doesnt get on great with her mum, i think its more a fact that her mum wont take her nonsense.
I dont get this from my kids and am not prepared to take it from his, although i love him very much and we knew each other many years ago and i always hoped we would get together one day, i am seriously considering telling him i cant do it.
I really need some advise.