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Spin-off of Gross post: What names have YOU (SM) been called by your DH's previous family?

misSTEP's picture

Either to your face or reported to you by someone else....I'll go first:

Bitch
Whore
Home Wrecker (we met after they broke up, thankyouverymuch)
Cunt
Slut
DH's New Piece of Ass
Freak
Ugly

I'm sure there are more I don't even know about or some I have forgotten. It's been over 13 years I've been dealing with this crap.

misSTEP's picture

I was never called that (to my knowledge) because BM knew how much she was bleeding DH dry.

I WAS called the "rich bitch" when DH would start showing up for his court hearings with a lawyer...which was FAR from the truth.

not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

Hm. Not by his previous family as BM was never family, but I got called these things before me and DH ever began dating (we all knew each other):

Dumber than a sack of hammers
Has the body of a twelve year old boy

Probably never went so far as to call me names though because everyone else would jump to my defense. She's twice my age (literally, DH had a thing for older women) but who had serious insecurity issues and jealousy issues. Imagine a 40 something year old woman shit talking a twenty year old girl who had been nothing but respectful and nice to her and you got BM.

not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

Oh I have to add she "predicted" me and DH would eventually get together, so she got prego on purpose a few weeks after Dh met me (they weren't with each other, cheating on their respective partner with each other)... which was why me and DH got together because I helped him through it so I guess I should thank her?

(These days if anyone who knew us both tries to get me to... shit talk BM because she still has her little gophers around, I just say I am thankful for what she did, because if not for her doing what she did, Dh would have never grown up, and still be stuck in a loveless relationship with his ex girlfriend, and I wouldn't have the protective, affectionate, sweet, and loving husband I have today. Pretty sure it drives her up the walls.)

Self fulfilling prophesies, at your service.

ACAM2012's picture

"Splitter"-this was by SO's sister and the BM of SD9 nicknamed me. This was my nickname because his sister became best friends with BM after his sister lived with us for a few months. After his sister moved out he didn't have much contact with her because he realized how much she had used him and how she only calls when she wants/needs something from him (there is so much more to this story but it is all based on how she treated us while she lived scott free in our home). His sister loves drama as much as the BM. When his sister moved out she started hanging out with BM to tell her EVERYTHING that went on in our home while she lived there. His sister blamed me for the reason he wasn't answering her calls. And between her and BM, I was nicknamed the splitter...because in their eyes I "split" him and his sister apart. WTF?

And BM has called me every name in the book. She told SD (6 at the time) that I was a "dirty bitch" because I would not allow SD to take a school library book to BM on a weekend visitation. BM has also called me names to my face: bitch, c**t, whore,etc.

BSgoinon's picture

Bitch
Whore
Home Wrecker (we starting dating after they broke up, thankyouverymuch)
Cunt

^^^^all of these^^^

Along with:
gold digger
nothing but the "second" wife (I suppose this is proof she can count?)
NOT the mom (uhh... duh)

hismineandours's picture

I dont really know. when ss was little bm used to refer to me as a "monster" to him. His "stepmonster".

My inlaws I am sure have many names for me. My sil seems fond of referring to me as "bitch". As in, "Bitch, Im going to kick your ass if you dont stop asking for the stuff I stole from you back!" oh, she's also called me "psycho" and "stalker". Those are typically in response to me telling her to please quit repeatedly calling my home or sending messages to me or my family members.

SS I am sure has colorful names for me-but the only ones I've ever heard to my face are "idiot" and "it". Mostly I am just "her" and "she". I guess I should feel pretty good about that as he referred to my mil as "my bitch ass grandma".

ACAM2012's picture

Oh yes...she says I am lazy and a gold digger. I attend college full time, days and evenings and take care of my BK's, 9 and 14 and also SD9 (her spawn) FULL TIME because SD lives here (as well as my two BK). SO works a lot so I do all of the housework, caretaking, etc. She thinks I am lazy and god digging because she has to fully support her SO because HE refuses to work. His two kids were removed from their hoe for physical abuse and exposure to porn, sex. During the 7 years that her and my SO were together she never worked a day in her life. She tricked him to getting her knocked up with SD. He would watch her take her BC pills that she would "hold" in her mouth until she went to another room and spit them down the sink. She has absolutely NO room to call ANYONE a gold digger or lazy!

Shaman29's picture

Uberskank (BM) refers to me as "That Woman!"

I'm not sure why. She and DH had been divorced for 10 years before I ever met him. It's not like I was a homewrecker. She had several live ins, one of which got her pregnant (DH's kids middle sibling) and then married someone one (DH's kid youngest sibling), divorced him and then remarried him before DH and I got married.

Not sure where "That Woman!" came from. Dirol

ACAM2012's picture

BM also got pissed when my SO took her to court for child support. They made her pay a measly $25 a month. BM said that the only reason SO took her to court was because "the brady bunch is living there"-meaning me and my kids. She doesn't think she should have to pay child support at all. She gets $6.25 taken out of her unemployment check each week (for child support) and bitches about it.

Disneyfan's picture

BM has called me everything listed here except gold digger and cunt.

Her favorite word that drives me insane is WHITE.

We're all black. She calls me white because "she only does white things"

What are those white things?

I have two degrees, a career, I put SDs in Girl Scouts, I took them to the "white" circus instead of UniverSoul Circus.

Smomof3's picture

OMG...I'd punch her and I am pasty white with red hair. How dare her be like that. What kind of example is that for her kids. My BM is jealous that I have a good job and a house, car, etc. Lots of good things happen when you stay off drugs and your not a crazy lunatic.

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Whore
Cunt
Gold digging whore
gold digger
bitch
Whore bag
Home wrecker

and the list goes on. It's kind of hard for me to be such a whore since I've been with DH for 9 years and he was well divorced by time I met him.

My youngest fat assed Skimark always fakes illnesses and injuries. Well, late 2007 and early 2008 I had 2 back-to-back bouts of pnuemonia that trashed my lungs. I only have 37% lung function left and have some mighty struggles to breath sometimes. I can't tell you how many times my youngest SS he has told my DH I'm nothing but a faker. It makes my blood boil. Even being this ill I still drag my ass to the gym every day and eat extremely healthy.

BM also felt free to call MY house and call me every name in the book for YEARS.

ps: I've seen SA's SECOND thread on my thread calling my SS a load that should have been swallowed. She's looking for a flame war and I'm over it. I frankly get tired of the SAF, SA Holly Roller attacks on all the members here. The Admins deleted my thread if anyone was wondering where it went.

oldone's picture

So none of you have been called "un-Christian"?

That's BM's ultimate insult. Now she was the whore of all times - both kids from ONS. Cheated on DH who married her even though first kids is almost certainly NOT his.

Now she is in her 50s and is "uber Church Lady". She speaks in tongues so I'm not sure what else she is calling me.

doll faced sm's picture

BM told DH that she saw a picture of me on his FB page and that I'm a "real dog. woof! woof!" :?

Since it was coming from Miss Piggy in the flesh, I didn't give it much thought.

Redsonya's picture

I've been called:

Orange County bitch
stuck up
wicked stepmother
fat
ugly
downgrade

I just laugh at her - nothing says downgrade like marrying a woman who has her own money and owns a home three times the size of BM's shack (which she can't even afford on her own). Has natural red hair, instead of dollar store dyed red like BM, younger, big boobs, and works out.

BM's favorite seems to be "cunt" which she shared with SS13 (he has since apologized).

Last night when we picked up SS13, he was talking to BM and I guess she asked where we were. SS13 said "Country Club" and I assumed that was the nickname he had given me with BM. I was so upset! I figure it was a way he could call me "cunt" to my face or in front of me to BM and no one would know. Plus, they are always making fun of me for being college educated and having my own money, lol. Turns out it was the name of the street we were on, but in my defense SS13 has spent hours at my house bagging on BM's BFs and making up names for them and since we were in BM's neighborhood, I didnt expect ANY street to be called "Country Club", lol. DH felt bad about the whole thing and said that he understood where that came from. SS13 doesn't know about it.

doll faced sm's picture

That's funny. When I was in about 3rd grade (I think) for whatever reason, I was still with my dad at the start of the school year. We lived in a little, run-down town with not much of anything to speak of. Anyway, I went to Country Club Heights Elementary, but had no idea there was a such thing as a Country Club let alone what it meant.

Needless to say, I was super confused when, after going back to my mom's, everyone thought my family was wealthy after I told them what school I'd come from. We were actually really poor, so that didn't last long, but I still remember it.