So very tired
I'm so tired. I'm tired of trying to help 14yr old SD be ready for life when nobody else seems worried about it. I'm tired of the manipulation that happens with DH that he verbally recognizes but doesn't change his behavior with SD. I'm tired of there being no parenting plan in place for 4 months now and BM just sitting over there not caring and just worried about it being her responsibility again. I'm tired of SD deciding when and if she goes over BM house and everyone going along with it. I'm just tired y'all. Everyone around me just keeps saying you have to love her like your own, but she isn't and when your efforts to help are shut down by attitudes and annoyance.... it makes you not want to try. Then your told you have to keep trying it's your child too. I'm just so over this. I have two toddlers to take care of and at 14 SD should be making my load less and not more with her laziness. Don't know what the answer is, just knew I need to vent to people that get it and don't just keep telling my you have to love her and keep trying. I try my best to disengage but it doesn't seem to work unless I completely ignore it all.