Was out to dinner with my FDH Sunday. FSD7 has been out of town with FMIL all week, it's been really nice. But the topic came up at dinner about having more kids, and FDH made a comment about how he's "already done all that," and it's my "turn now" to do the daiper changing and raising any future kids. It really upset me, I said "you haven't done it with ME though." I feel like he's not eager or excited to have kids like I am, because he's already been there done that, and he's just doing me a favor by giving me kids. On the flip side, it's nice seeing how great of a dad he is (minus the disney parenting), but will my kids miss out on that because he's already started a family?
This finally made me feel like I'm ready to leave. Any advise? Did anyone else experience this with a positive outcome?