Sick of living in a pigsty when skids round
I work all week and we have skids every other weekend. When they are here they leave their stuff everywhere, I understand they don't have a bedroom here because the house is too small but all I ask is for them to not leave their dirty washing on my living room floor and put their rubbish in the bin. DH seems to just turn a blind eye to it and we seem to have the same argument every month about how he doesn't tell them to tidy up after themselves.
Today I asked my SS to put his wrapper in the bin and he said 'I'll do it later' and DH just sat there. When he asks me why I'm upset and I tell him, he says I don't treat my DD the same way (which i do, I always make her tidy up after herself). This is how the conversation always goes, if I say anything about his kids then he'll try and turn it around onto mine.
I know washing on the floor isn't a big deal but I have had enough. I want to relax after a long weekend at work, I don't want to hide away in the bedroom because his kids take over my house.