Should I be worried????
SS15 has Never been outgoing or social. The main Reason is SS15 was/is totally spoiled and never taught to do anything for himself including making friends or being part of a team. BM was super lazy and never pushed SS15 to join a sport/activity as she could not be bother to get off the couch to make an effort. Bringing SS15 to "the park" and sitting on the bench reading when SS was little was as active as BM got. DH is not lazy but a total introvert who prefers to stay home rather than socialize.
So now we have SS15 who has no friends, sleeps till 3pm when there's no school and watches tv from the time he gets up till bedtime. SS15 talks about kids at school but he seems unable to move on to any kind of friendship with this kids as I don't think he knows how. SS15 likes baseball and other sports but not up to the playing level of other kids his age. Also unless DH agreed to be a active part( Coach or assistant coach) and hold SS15 hand it's VERY unlikely SS15 would do it. So being 15 it's not like DH can call a peer from school for a play date. At this age there is little parents can do.
So here's my Concern. What are the Chances SS15 will overcome this and be able to function with other people? At this age is there anything DH can do? I feel both BM and DH expected the other one to "Socialize" SS and neither did so we have a Socially 6 year old in a 15 yr old body. Is it to late to do anything?? All I can see is SS being 30 and living in my basement!