well IM a SM to 2 skids with the good times and the bad. Well now my father (my mom passed away 2 years ago) has met some one.....and its serious. I dont want to be the pain in the butt SD!! NO WAY.....I love my Dad . we are close. Not kissy huggy or anything like that. I really want him to be happy. SO i need to stay out of it and let him live his life and be happy. I thank God for this site....cus i really need to remember his happiness is important. I am supposed to meet her this friday...ugh im not ready for this.