SD24 Moving Back And I'm Dreading It
So SD24 is FINALLY graduating college. DW is over the moon that SD24 is moving "back home". DW seems to think that the "proper parenting" this day and age is to have the 'kids' move 'home' (and live off ME) for as long as it takes for her to "pay off her student loans" and "save for a house". Now mind you, I am dirt poor primarily because I'm expected to financially support two ADULT offspring of my DW (SD24 and SD20) who are NOT MY KIDS. We actually rent because the area that "my girls grew up in" and I'm forced to live in is outrageously expensive (SF Bay Area), but I'm supposed to "as a parent" "help" SD24 to "save money for a house".
I'm sorry, but I'm ready to blow a gasket!! When I said that "I'm done supporting ADULT 'kids who arent even mine'" you would have thought I spoke blasphmy! DW seems to think that by marrying her, I signed up to support her ADULT offspring in perpetuity. I also know exactly what's going to happen is that SD24 will move back from college into MY home and will sleep all day and be lazy because, "she's so tired from college". I'm sorry, I started working FULL TIME (in construction mind you so also physical) the Monday after I graduated college!
DW thinks that this is the best thing ever that her "baby is moving back home". I know in her mind she's thinking YEARS! In my mind, I'm saying a few months with the expectation that SD24 works FULL TIME, starts paying her own way (ie insurance, meals, etc) and that she also should start paying rent.
Am i wrong because DW sure has told me I'm a POS for thinking this way!