SD8 had a scary meltdown a few months ago and has been seeing a therapist since. The therapist called DH and I to schedule a meeting to discuss her diagnosis. SD8 has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Usually, they don't diagnose this until yound adulthood, but based on the severity of what SD has been telling in her therapy sessions.
I've read up a little and now I'm really worried about having SD around the other kids - especially my 5 month old DD. The therapist mentioned that SD8 is having difficulty adjusting to being a big sister - that she resents how much attention the baby gets.