SD is a Bridezilla!
I am new and this is my first post. I have been reading and happy I have found a place totalk to folks that will understand!
I have an alcoholic DH who's adult bd that started dating a guy in July and is already getting married. When my DH and I married we went alone and she has always resented that. My own adult BS
married and on his own but the sd still lives with BM. She argued with her one time about 2 years ago and lived with us for about 6 weeks. Not one time did she even put her own dishes in the DW much less help me with any chores. She slept on the same sheets for 6 weeks and when she left, they where still dirty and bed not made! You get the picture right?
Well, Her F did come over and had the "marriage discussion" with DH but she did not tell me they where even talking about it. My DH did after they left that day. We found out about the engagement of FB! OK so, being nice, I took the happy couple shopping. Spent $300.00 in 3 stores. 2 days ago, she screams at me on the phone about an issue of her wedding that I offered to help with, I tell her that she can do it herself and I hang up before I get enraged. % minutes later DH calls and says "What did you say to her? she just called me crying?" WTH? He assumed that I was in the wrong?
DH and I have been only co-existing for a long long time. He drives, and I mean a case a day and stops off at his parents EVERY SINGLE day. Doesnt come home before 8PM and by that time, he is plastered. I just do my job and try to stay out of the way of his verbal abuse.
My oldest brother was killed in a freak accident last October, we suffered major flood damage in May and 2 days later, I lost my Dad. When I took vacation last week, he stated he did not have vacation left because he used all of his "burying people" I could go on for an hour of remarks like this. The day of my Dad's memorial he asks me how long is was going to take because he needed to get home to cut his parents yard!
I feel trapped because of a house that will not sale in this market, so short of bankrupsy, I dont know what to do. My BS hates him because while he was only living with a short time before he moved out on his own, he was verbally abusive to him and I feel like a terrible mother for not leaving back then. I love him but thats not enough..........someone please tell me I deserve better like I know I do