Sd is angry (can I blame her? )
Sd isn't going to want to come around much longer, and dh isn't gonna know what hit him. But in his eyes he hasn't done anything wrong.
He likes to yell. But he doesn't follow through as long as it involves his daughter because that involves actually parenting her. I will never understand what happened. Once we got married his balls slowly began to detach when it came to anything sd related. I think that instead of following through, he decided to stop doing anything.
So now that sd noticed dh has ignored her she is angry. Dh's father wanted to take everyone out to dinner on Friday but I was busy with dds' sporting event so sd, dh and fil went instead. Dh said sd pouted the whole time, she ordered an insane amount of food and over ate. When he told me all this I just say there with a blank expression. Didn't say anything.
Well then Saturday came and we went out to do some errands while we were out we went to a deli for lunch sd ordered a bacon cheddar baked potato I swear it looked like there were 2 potatoes there. I didn't say anything, but neither did dh. She cleared her plate again. My thoughts were "whatever, don't even look" so I didn't. While we were out sd kept shoving me to get to the car first. Amy time I spoke (to anyone) she'd role her eyes and "humph". I said something about planning on going to the pool this weekend (which she had been begging dh to do) and she rolled her eyes and crossed her arms.
I know that she is angry with dh and taking it out on me. But dh just says I'm sure she didn't mean to "knock into" you (the child shoved me with her hands), and "I didn't see her roll her eyes.", "are you sure she wasn't just breathing?"