Respect me or leave me!
O.k I just found out my boyfriend broke another promise to me once again.. we've been living together for over a year now in my house. His ex texted me and asked me to take care of their 10 year old daughter she was sick. I agreed and my boyfriend went to pick his kid up from his ex wife's house after he got off work and his ex texted me I will have her up awake and ready to be picked up. Well not!!! When he came home with his kid he said it took him longer then normal to pick her up because he was having a hard time waking her up.so the next day she is gone I asked him did you go inside your ex wife's house when you picked up your kid the other night? He said yes I did...I'm like you promised me you'd never go in her house ever again. He said his ex opened the door told him she was getting her out of bed and he walks in the house. He also goes up to the kids bedroom his ex says no my boyfriend is up here he was sleeping over. Anyway he said he went back down stairs and waited for his daughter. I have told him time and time again... You and your ex need to set boundaries and respect those boundaries. I told him I do not want you going inside your ex wife's house period! He says it's his kid he will do what ever he wants! We got into another fight! In the past he has respected my wishes but when ever he sees his ex wife's boyfriends car in the drive this is when he just walks in like he lives there. This is the second time he has done this both times her boyfriend was there. Once I was sitting outside in my car waiting on him and I was so pissed!we got into a huge fight! I told him this is not about trust or me wanting to control him it's about respecting me respecting his ex wife setting boundaries and respecting those boundaries. I think he is boiling inside she recently got engaged and this guy stays there alot now. His ex and him lived in this house for 20 years and I could tell he was upset that he was there when he told me he entered the house. Anyway I'm hurt I'm upset because he disrespecting me again. He does not give a hoot about my feelings.. He lives in my house and I feel he has no business going into his ex wife's house just like she never comes into our home.. I really think he will never put my wants first... My feelings first... It's not about control it's about respect... Am I right or wring here? Help!I told him respect me or leave me!