DH has primary custody. The child custody papers state that my DH lives at an address which in reality is the address of Starbucks in a local mall. We did not ever live at Starbucks or even in the same city as the mall. The papers were written that way by the attorneys to help egg donor out. She refuses to learn to drive (men should escort women around in her opinion), she lived near the mall and worked there. It was a location that she could easily meet my DH at in order to pick up her child. I've been very opposed to it since the beginning, but I had no say in it. DH wanted her to be able to see her child, so he went along with it.

Fast forward 10 years. Egg donor is married. Her & her husband meet my DH closer to a halfway point between our 2 homes. The court docs have never been altered. We have moved out of county, but only about 15 mins further out. Egg donors husband is making threats to no longer 'do us a favor' by driving closer to the halfway point and is instead wanting to meet at Starbucks 'like the court paper work says'. My DH had enough (finally).

We want to change the court order to our real address. My concern is that we did move without notifying the court, although the address on the paper work was NEVER our actual address. Also, will the falsified address, which was done to help egg donor out, come back to haunt us as perjury or contempt of court since DH was an idiot and agreed to it? What kind of expense are we looking at?