Question for mental health professionals or anyone else with input
See my last post for full details. SS14 has Been professionally diagnosed since six years old with mood disorders which he is on medication for. SS14 can Violently explode( punching/hitting/swearing and breaking things) when DH try's and reprimand or make SS14 do something he does not want to. This has been brought up to both SS14 Social worker and psychiatrist as this is the reason he's been Diagnosed in the first place. Violent over-the-top behavior.
So my question is WHY do Medical professionals first go to medication and LOTS of therapy?? Not once has anyone asked about Consequences when SS14 does this or that he should be punished. It's almost like they try and blame the parents for not giving enough Accommodations or making to much stress for SS14. Really? I get these kids have a real problem BUT in my opinion these Mental health professionals are not doing any justice by making excuses for bad behavior. I mean SS14 is 4 years from becoming an adult then what? Will they still think it's DH fault when SS14 is 20 yrs old 6 foot and 200 pounds and beats the crap out of DH?? I don't get these people