Question to clear my mind RE: ex and BD
Not that this matters anymore, but I need to know if I'm nuts or if something's ridiculous.
BD is a 39 year old full-grown man who works, pays his bills, coaches baseball, blah, blah, blah, and he has to go out of town for weeks at a time for his job, including occasionally overseas. He's the worst writer I've ever read, and he speaks like a bit character from the old TV show Green Acres, but the man knows how to pack a suitcase.
So Sunday night the exFskids are going to Daddy's at 6:30 because that's the swap time. AND on Monday they're going to camp.
Does Mommy need to be at Daddy's house at 10 at night to help them pack, or can the kids and Daddy do it themselves? I mean shit, is she going to have to go to Daddy's every time they have to brush their teeth? He can't take care of his kids on his night? He can pack for a week in France but he can't pack two preteens for a week at camp?
It's just another bullshit deal for her to keep her little "family" going and still keep someone else around is my feeling. You're either Mommy/Daddy/the kids, or you're Mommy/the kids and Daddy/the kids. You're either divorced or you aren't. This isn't a graduation or a weeding, it's packing for fucking camp.
Am I high or is that ridiculous that she feels the need to go TO DADDY'S at 10 at night and pack them?