Pregnant 18 year old stepdaughter
My stepdaughter is 18, suffers from mental illness and we found out this week she's pregnant. Her boyfriend wants her to abort as he feels they too young. I have 3 kids of my own. She moved out the house to live with her boyfriend , we supplied her contraceptive every month but she didn't take it. Her dad has said she may move back home. She has tried suicide and is Mentally Ill. We took her to psychologists who put her on medication. She decided to stop the medication. This week we sat down with her and her boyfriend to discuss the situation , she had a full on meltdown blaming her dad and his past affairs from a previous marriage to threatening suicide. I couldn't deal with it so I got up to get some air as i was shaking and she said , oh you leaving well then you won't have any part in my babies life. She is psycho.. Can't do anything for herself let alone raise a baby ..her father let's her get away with so much claiming shes too depressed to get up and do a chore. I have tried to be nice to her but I'm afraid that if she moves back it will affect not only me but my children .. Who have seen her psychotic episodes. She manipulates and lies to her father. I feel like this will end my marriage ... As her father has said his child comes first. We have only been married for a year and been together 4 years. I am so stressed out. She was also drinking and smoking weed until she found out at 7 weeks that she's pregnant. I know she won't be able to care for her child and her dad and I will have to raise ... I don't want this as I'm raising my own kids. They can't afford the baby as they both earn a small amount. They are currently living at his parents place .. But he's dead set against not having baby .. They both immature.