Options for high school Delinquent
Ok I have disengaged from SKs and The BM. Way too much drama and was causing me extreme stress. Basically BM and SKs called all the shots and DH had NO BALLS. I try and stay out of this crap except for things that will effect me Directly. Something maybe brewing that could effect me directly BUT before I jump in I would like people’s thoughts on what could be going on or the out come. Here it is... SK is a Senior in high school. SK high school Transcript has her overall GPA at 68. She signed up for a vo-tech program in school but flunked our. She can never make it to class before late morning and has a number of Detentions from being late. She has a shity Attitude of “ I don’t care”. The school wants both parents and SK to come in and discuss options. She already has a 504(?)plan in for school. My fear is number one BM can’t handle her and may try and dump this Delinquent on us fulltime and we will be supporting her till she’s 30.Or Somehow DH will have to split the cost of getting SK out of this mess she’s got into with her grades . Option number two is more likely as I don’t see BM giving up her monthly child support if she pushed SK onto us to live. Unfortunately SK has talked about college. Not sure where she stands with it now. It would cost a small Fortune just to pay for the classes she would have to retake just to get in any college. Call a Public high school kick you out for missing classes and poor grades? Not sure how she is going to be able to finish out the Senior year. Would you just sit back and wait and see what happens or should I jump in now to try and do damage control?