Operation Stepbrat Continues
So, my first salvo in dealing with lying disgusting SS12 was to refuse to speak English to him or in his presence. He only speaks English. This was after I reached the end of my tether with this child's rudeness, laziness and disrespect. It is the start of my disengaging, but first I will take back my house by waging war against this brat.
SS is totally confused- he is solidly ignored and when I do respond its in a language he doesn't understand. (He doesn't know a decent way of speaking to me an now he can't speak to me.) He bitched to DH about the non- English and DH spoke to me. I told DH, it is your kid, he can learn Dutch! It's not my duty to speak English to a rude brat.
SS also scratches in my files or paperwork. I purposely left fake emails about adopting another child in my paperwork. SS12 had a hissy fit with his Dad about the pending adoption of a baby... DH of course had no idea what SS was talking about. When DH asked me I innocently said I have no idea what you are talking about. The kid is lying. SS was furious! Temper tantrum of note... See SS you are not the only one who can lie. Left brochures on the coffee table about property . SS is aware I want to move. He asked me about it, I ignored him. He asked his Dad, dad had no idea what he was talking about. Of course he didnt.... Neither did I. SS TV is PG13 anything else is restricted. No one knows why he can't remember the password code for the settings... Probably because I reset it. Our TV, password protected and mainly on foreign language channels. See SS, two can play psychological terrorist!!
Then SS went home to BM who called me. My Phone caller ID for BM is Satan. I am not answering that. Three phone calls. All ignored. BM phones ranting! DH slams phone on the nutcase talking about adopted babies... Nice!
DH also has his hands full. He has to make SS lunch, do his laundry, check his homework... And it's driving him nuts! All I do is make dinner, SS is ignored except I make dinner for him. I told DH I will no longer deal with this rude disrespectful brat- parent your own child on your own. I take zero responsibility. Your monkey, your circus.
DH is grateful SS is back with his mother. Quite an eye opener to deal with your own little lying dirty rude brat, DH. Enjoy it.
Life is pretty good in Jingerville at present.