Like Mother Like Daughter
It's the prissy priss routine that gets me. How when her father and I are talking she walks up interrupts us repeatedly, and in this whinny tone says "Daddy I love you". The lipstick, and the perfume (which she applies like a 2 dollar hooker,( and is bought for dress up from her Dad), the shorts that are pulled up to her waist so her checks hang out the bottoms. I call them her "booty shorts" typical for a teen, but she's 6 YEARS OLD. Her dancing around shaking her butt like it's the cutest thing in the world. It's not cute, and not only do I find this inappropriate I'm PISSED because her father laughs it off saying she's just like her mother.
Really the only thing I see in this little girls future at this point is a stripper pole! So pretty much like her mother. HAHA!
When we go to town she RUNS SKIPS, and DANCES (see above booty dance routine) around the store at top speed. Going 90MPH! Talking to every employee or random person in the isle. She can't keep her hands off of the merchandise which drives me nuts. I feel if she says "I want" one more time I'll slap her into next week. I am really at my wits end with this behavior.
Her father doesn't believe in ADHD\ADD medication because she's maintaining really good grades in school, he doesn't want her medicated just because she's a lively child at home if she can concentrate at school that's all that matters. Her discipline in school is border line she often gets in trouble for talking, or showing "lack of self control" as her 1st grade teacher states it.
Her father and I are calling her name and correcting her constantly. While waiting in line in the store she runs off out of sight when her father gets on to her for that she grins and says what in that whiney voice and sticks her hips out “What”. Most people thinks she’s just the cutest happiest child ever but me I can’t help but see her as a manipulative brat who acts like her 36 year real mother; again her real mom does these same behaviors when she’s trying to get her way (she even does them in court IE this woman hasn’t paid her Child Support in 2 years!) These things really piss me off how this child can be so much like this woman already. Since my husband has custody of their children and they only see their real mom a total of 42 days A YEAR and that’s it! We have said 6 year old girl and their 11 year old boy the rest of the year so during the summer mommy dearest gets them for a summer full of no rules, hooker clothes, and booty dancing. I really don’t know how to get control on this little terror. She’s like ingesting to much chocolate it’s great for 2 seconds but living with her for 2 years makes you want to throw up, and it’s only getting worse. Help. Advice please. It felt really good just writing this down. : )