Just broached the chore fight with hubby
My SD14 rarely does her chores and it drives me crazy. My husband won't enforce them, so I end up being the one to do them, on top of everything else I do. SD lives with us. Her chores are (Monday) clean her bathroom (she's the only one who uses it), (Tuesday) clean her room, Wednesday vacuum downstairs (three rooms), Thursday wash a load of towels.
This week, the only chore that got attempted was the towels. She washed three, and they were still in the washer when I left this morning.
I told him he either needs to make sure SD does these chores or do them himself. So as not to add to my burden. We'll see what his response is!