Is it wrong to think this way?
I need advice please.My bf has and 8year old daughter, he is not listed on her birth certificate and therefore has no rights but he does give the mom chid support and keeps her 8 days per month. Not because he has too but because he thinks it's the right thing to do.
My kids live with us and are 3 and 7. Last year my bf and I took a drive down the coast of maine and through New Hampshire. This year my kids want to come too. It's a big deal to go to another country as we live in Canada, LOL. Anyway I mentioned this to my bf and he will not take my kids. The whole reason is that his daughter can't cross the border with us, as he is not legally her dad. I really think we should go anyway. I told my bf that my kids would have fun and why should they pay for his stupid decisions he made in life. He says no way will we go anywhere with SD. So? What do you think? Is this a silly thing to ask him to go without her?