It scares me how right I am
Maybe I have a gift of intuition, or maybe just knew SD would be a pain in the arse...I don't know...but I have envisioned problems with SD and they are continuously coming true.
I was worried SD would eventually be a bad influence on my kids and I would have to kick her out. I thought that was extreme and would likely never happen, but I envisioned it and it happened.
I envisioned SD doing drugs and went so far as to tell SD and DH if she ever did drugs or brought them into my home, I would call the police and she would be in juvenile hall immediately. She just started smoking weed while living with her grandparents (of course they didn't call the police...dumbarses).
I also envision her asking for money and new cars when she is older and I envision her getting a gun and trying to kill me in my sleep...I will not allow any of that to happen! I even bought a gun safe with a coded entry for when she comes over on holidays.
It is likely just that I realized SD was a broken soul and these are the things broken souls do...but I have been telling DH these problems I foresaw if her path wasn't changed...and those problems certainly are the path she has chosen. On one hand I feel like "told ya so" and on the other...I am just so sad for her (and me)