It Just Never Ends :(
So, to make a long story short, BM's new BF served DH with papers about a month ago. Basically, she was wanting more CS, wanting money from MY business and for me to not be around the skids when they are over because "DH and I argue"!
Well, none of that was going to fly with either one of us, so my DH filed his own papers in response to hers. He met with a mediator about 3 weeks ago and they went over his T4's to determine where his child support should be... Ready for this? His CS is to be $100 LESS than what he is currently paying!!!!! THERE IS A GOD!!! Lol!!!! As for my business, she can't touch any of it because it is 100% MINE! She claims that she "knows for a fact that DH is making money off of it" which is completely untrue! I'M not even making money off of it right now!!! It's a new business (under a year old) and makes enough to pay employees, office rent and bills. No more!
Now, DH has filed for FULL CUSTODY of his 2 kids (12 & 14) :sick: Don't get me wrong, they are good kids, but I don't want them to live with us full time. Not anything against them, but more to do with DH. He is a LAZY person that is sometimes a kid himself and I just can't see him taking care of 2 kids when he barely can take care of himself! I absolutely refuse to take care of them as I am not their mom. I don't know if DH will end up with them though... His reasons for going for full-custody is:
1. She leaves them at home a lot to babysit everyones kids while they go out to party.
2. Her current BF (actually, fiance) just went to jail (again) for assulting a police officer (real winner)
3. She denies visitation with DH
4. She drives them around without a drivers license or properly insured or registered vehicle
5. They are both failing school
6. She is VERY unstable. She's moved 4 times in the last year and just got divorced last year and then engaged to this new winner.
There are a lot of other issues, but those are the main ones. Do you think that a judge will warrant DH full time custody of the kids? I'm just really stressing out about all of this because we JUST moved into a smaller place that we could better afford and DH is acting like an idiot because he's so stressed out with what the out-come will be. He's supposed to get the kids tonight, but BM is PISSED that he did this and probably won't let them see their dad. In mediation she said "the kids are pissed at you because you are trying to take them away from me". The mediator asked how the kids know about this and BM says, "I told them"!! Wow!!! Just let kids be kids and deal with kid problems and adults deal with adult issues! Ugh! It just never ends. Every 2 years she's taking DH to court over something. It's just getting so old. Thanks for letting me vent