Is it bad to be looking forward to this awkward dinner?
Its been 10 days since DH has uttered a word to SS13. He is coming tonight and DH is making SS17 his favorite dinner of pork roast. He has no plans on speaking to SS13 other then hello until SS13 gives him a correct apology. I giggle at just about everything. Worse when its awkward. Oh boy I can see the evil eye coming now.
Two weeks ago, DH took SS13 shopping for new catchers equipment. Not cheap! That following Tuesday he had his first scrimmage of the season. DH was standing behind the dug out talking to other parents and SS13 grounded out. As he was walking back to the dugout DH said "its ok son, shake it off".
SS13 went into the dugout, sat down next to the head coach and said "I can't play baseball with him talking to me and I wish he wasn't even here" :jawdrop: :jawdrop:
DH left and was extremely hurt. SS13 didn't even know that DH heard him which to DH made it worse because if he would have said it direct to him they would have hashed it out but to DH SS13 was talking shit behind his back.
SS17 called that night to find out how it went and DH told him what SS13 said and that he was hurt. It was a slap in the face to him. DH pays all sports fees, equipment, trips, meals, etc. Works overtime and takes every standby of the week to be able to provide SS13 with what he needs. MOTY only goes to about 2 games a year and thats if the weather is not good for the beach and its a home game across the street from her development.
SS17 told SS13 that DH heard him and SS13 waited 6 days to send a text that said "Im sorry for what I said, I was having a bad day and let my emotions get ahold of me" Sorry SS13 - we know that is not how you talk and who wrote that text? SS17 DH replied with "ok"
Needless to say, that hurt has turned to anger and will be speaking to SS13 about respect and gratitude. This should be good.