Found ss12 texting about what a 'moron' I am this morning, with his MOTHER. Promptly, (regretabley) flipped out. Told him to call his mom and have her pick him up if he doesn't want to be here. She then insisted to speaking to me. Advised me that she will be taking DH back to court so that the kids can't come over here any more. Victory, in my book.