I'm baaaaaaaaack! BUT I NEED ADVICE!!!!
It's been a looooong time since I've been on here and so much has gone on. I'll give you the Reader's Digest version....
I moved out of SO's home. I still talk to him but I'm not playing house with him. Here is the kicker. His three kids REFUSE to see him and it's been now about a year. BM will not make them see him either even though he has tried. Here is the kicker...BM wanted him to watch the youngest but then threw in the fact he had to take the other two. Well how is he suppose to watch the other two daughters (this was on her time btw) if they refuse to come over and she says they are old enough to decide whether or not they want to come over.
YET....ExSO has always paid CS on time but how she is having it garnished from his check. Fine...but ExSO lost his job so there is no money coming in. But before he lost his job she went into his checking (I guess there was a an open account which was linked to his personal account.) Anyway she drained it DRY! Now SO is paid up on CS but she will not go to the CS Agency and say he is paid up. They are threatening to take his license. He had to call and make a police report finally regarding her tapping into his account and stealintg money.
He has flat out said he had his EX and how his kids were the biggest mistakes (they are older not little kids.) So, is that not strange? I mean I can understand why he hates his EX, hell I hate her too (for my own reasons) but not seeing his kids at all or reaching out to them. Is he wrong? But how does he reach out when they won't talk to him and BM doesn't enforce it? It makes me sick that she won't let him have communication with him but wants that check each month.
It is like a freakin soap opera. So do I still push him to see his kids or contact them when he doesn't want to and they don't want to?