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Submitted by Katia on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 4:33pm

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So i dont know if people can actually see this but i will start. I am 24 my husband is 44 and my stepson is Seventeen. We have no fights no problems EVER!!! Seriously the only bitch i have is that he doesn't go anywhere we dont get the house alone, we cant hav edinner parties as a double date at our place, we cant ahve sex, we cant do anything!!!! He is over our shoulder 100 percent of the time either talking or following me around with his guitar when im trying to clean or even go to the bathroom. But when i bring anything like my husbands kid leaving to go hangout with friends so we can have some alone time or like tonight go out for a little so i can have a girlfriend over without him joining our girl time etc etc. I feel like i have done nothing but form to their lives to help them and to make them happy, i to am happy though from this relationship but the fact that his father over indulges him and wipes his butt with golden toilet paper is to much for me !!! But if a say anything then im just being cruel or vindictive to him and his son!! Or im just not there to help only him, which being my age i do want to do fun things eeryonce in a while but i cant cause im given all the resposibility and slack they cant pick up. Am i just crazy?

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 6:05pm

Um I vote with the others. You are closer to his age than his fathers. He has a crush on you BIG time and will follow you until you get REALLY mean and push him away. To be crass, you are every teen boys wet dream... hot SMILF. Did this never occur to you?

And just BEING his stepmother doesn't stop his hormones from raging. His father is unlikely to believe you because this is HIS wife and HIS son.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Sat, 11/12/2011 - 6:54pm

He's interested in you and your friends. Don't be surprised when his friends start buzzing around the house.

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Submitted by Madam Hedgehog on Sun, 11/13/2011 - 2:40pm

thank GOD my SSs are 5 and 2. I can't imagine having to deal with a hormonal teenage stepson at 24.

When he tries to pester you and your friends, start talking about your period in gory details.

If that doesn't scare him off, I'd say you have a serious problem on your hands.

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Submitted by freckledlizzy on Sun, 11/13/2011 - 10:54pm

he does need to have a hell of a lot of responsibility. he's 17 not 7, even 7 year olds have chores.. And if he's following YOU Around you're a smilf (step milf) at 24 he probably figures you are not too old to think about...in that way. Not even trying to be gross.

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Submitted by freckledlizzy on Sun, 11/13/2011 - 11:02pm

if it is a crush your husband should tell him "Get off my kool-aid. Mine is mine go find your own hot young wife"

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Submitted by cryingmama on Mon, 11/14/2011 - 12:18pm

yah i agree with every one else. Did you not know he had a 17 year old when you married him ? You can say whatever you want to your husband but honestly i feel like a bitch for saying this but you are not a mother figure to this boy you are his fathers wife, if he was 7 would feel the same way. i have to say you must have known what you were getting into. your seven years older than him your husband is twenty years older than you, the 17 year old probibly sees you as a peer. I know i would have . Sorry