It never fails... there is always drama... ALWAYS.

So, it was our weekend with the kids, naturally we would take them to school on Monday morning for the first day. Let me back up... Friday night was meet the teacher night, we went... texted BM told her when and where to meet us. I got there a little early and found out what classes all the kids are in. BM only has ONE child to concern herself with... we have THREE. On our way to our oldest daughters class we passed by SS's class... a note on the door said she would not be there for the night, and she would see us all on Monday. BM lives about 20 minutes away from the school. I texted her and told her his teacher wasn't there, her name and her room number. NEVER said don't come... NEVER said we wouldn't see her. SO... off we go to the other 2 kids classes. BM texts back "I am here anyways, where are you?" to that I said "In BD7's class, I will be over there in a few minutes". Literally 5 minutes later we walked to SS's \class so he could see his mom for a minute. She wasn't there... she was supposed to be bringing us his backpack and lunch box for the first day of school... I called her, she had left. She then asked if she could come tuck him in on Sunday night... um, NO...she had every intention of being there Monday morning for the first day of school... she can wish him luck then. She does NOT need to be in our home, interrupting OUR family time. FH told her no.

Moving forward, Sunday night she calls me, I tell her what time we are leaving our house, we are going to BD7's class first... if we are NOT as SS's class when you get there we will be at CLASSROOM NUMBER.... it is on the very NORTH side of the school... you can meet us there. I thought that was pretty helpful... ???

Monday morning... 725... no BM... 730...no BM... 740... NO BM (school starts @ 750) 745... STILL no BM. FH was in class with SS (he is in the 1st grade) I was in line for BD6's class... he comes over and gets in line with me "his teacher is shutting the door, BM never showed" oh well. FH grabbed the emergency card packet off SS's desk and we went about our business... still in line for BD's class BM FINALLY storms down the hall looking like she just rolled out of someones bed... (totally embarassing) yelling "they changed the classroom numbers, Friday THAT was room 107".. I calmly said "no, that is room 107" pointing to the classroom directly behind the one she was referring to. She ran off... FH then shouted down the hall "his door is already shut"... SO... when we get back to our car FH had text messages from BM asking if she was too late, and I am on my way... blah blah blah... she wasn't lost because of a room number she was LATE, as usual. WHATEVER, her loss.

THEN... yesterday FH gets a text "I am turning in emergency card info tomorrow" he replied "dont bother SM already did it, she included your mom as a contact" OMG, you would have thought I just changed his birth certificate to my name. She has since then gone completely bolistic. Texting me, telling me I discouraged her from going there on Friday, and Monday... WHAT???????? Seriously? She is crazy!

It has even gotten to the point that she is not "allowing" ss to go the the gate where we HAVE to pick him up from (because of the grades of the other kids we have to pick up) she wants him at the front gate on her days, and she doesn't care where he goes on our days... well that's great. He is 6, do you think he is going to remember to go to a different gate every 2 days?? It's too confusing. What are we going to do, have his teacher learn our custody schedule... it flip flops every week. She is so completely selfish it makes me want to spit in her face. How did I know she picked up a packet? There was ONE sitting on his desk, his dad picked it up when the teacher said "parents make sure you grab the packet on the kids desks before you leave"... She is so insecure it is insane... I HATE the first week of school... it is always something. Oh.. and he has been late everyday since he has been at her house. 3rd day of school and she can't roll her lazy a$$ outta bed to get him to school on time. She has NO business being a mother. Don't even get me started on how she wants to put him in counseling because of all of this. The funny thing is, he is so well adjusted to having TWO homes... like SUPER adjusted... SHE is the one that has issues with it, SHE is the one that needs counseling. FH thinks it is because we are getting married in 17 days... I think she is just plain NUTS. She pulls something like this EVERY YEAR. Even getting him kicked out of a school before.