I am the BM...SM driving me CRAZY!!
So my ex-husband and i have been split up for 2yrs after 10yrs together, We have 4 children 10,6,4,1. I have not dated or remarried anyone since we spilt. Not becasue i wouldnt want to but i am just trying ot put all my focus in our children and i am going to nursing school. Ex and i had a pretty bad relationship the last 2 yrs togehter and i just dont want to be with anyone any time soon. Ex is now remarried and sees the kids every other weekend. His new wife is driving me INSANE. She seems to think the reason i am not seeing anyone is because i want ex back, which is crazy. Just becasue we have kids together doesnt mean i want to be with him.We are still friends but that is it friends. Even if she wasnt with him i would not want him. My kids say they fight all the time about me and how she doesnt want him talking to me or around me. When we do talk it is about the kids nothing else. He came ot my mothers funeral, whom i might add was like his own mother for years and she freaked out saying we were sleeping together at my moms funeral. I asked her to come but she refused. I just dont know what to do anymore, i am fed up with the whole situation. I divorced my husband to get away from stress and she is continually bringing it back. EX BIL told her that she should be thanking her lucky stars she has a sane BM mom to deal with and stepkids that acually behave but she is just constantly stirring up trouble and unfortunetly making his family and the kids not like her.