I am about to scream right now....
I am so annoyed right now.
SD is the devil, she is awful, she stole money from me last time she was over (found out a few days after she left and it was long gone by then). She lied to us, she talks to us like we are bellow her. She makes all the rules at her moms house and her mom doesnt make her mind then when she comes over its us dealing with it.
At first I thought DH would stand up to her, and make things better, but not seeming to happen the little brat is still making the rules. She said she has plans Friday night so she will come over Saturday afternoon instead and we can take her home Sunday before church becuase her mom has plans with her. DH is all cool with that, I am like 1st off why even come if its only for a few hours. and 2nd of all if we have to be around her why not make her follow the complete schedule. the more he gives in, has no boundaries the harder its going to be. I know its so irrational for me, but i get so mad what ever she says go.
Just like when she was caught sending dirty photos on her cell phone we took it away. BM threw a huge fit, and has her grandma get her a new one. Now SD is still doing the same thing because BM will throw a fit if we take cell phone away. And if we try to at our house its like WW3.
Or that fact BM said SD had to DH permission to get her belly button peirces, DH said no not until she was 16 atleast. Well BM said okay and then let SD get it done.
How do you get over being so mad about all of this? How do you stop caring a 14 year old, stole 300$ from me and neither parent will do anything (dh said he doesnt know what to do because BM wont make her give it back, i told him i was about to file a police report but he said it wont do any good they will both deny it). How do you get over the fact SD comes only when she wants to? The fact she acts like we are totally idiots and she is the best thing ever. The fact the SD says something and it goes. Like the fact she wants to change the visiation to fit her plans. The girl has all but four days a month to hang out with her friends (honestly its only 2 days becuase friday we pick her up after 5, and on sunday we get her home before 1 because she is ready to go, so those days she can do what ever still.)