I’m losing my mind Seeking advice
Here I sit in my bedroom Pretty much my existence when the Spawn of Satan AKA SS13 is over. Yes I’m welcome in the rest of the house BUT I will Be subjected to screaming, Annoying screeching, and being talked to Rudely by SS. I have to keep my purse with me as SS steals. When I come out of the bedroom I find a house that looks like WW3 hit. SS uses my Couch as a Napkin to wipe his greasy hands with since he refuses to eat with a fork like normal people. Wipes is Boogers on the bathroom wall. I’m lucky if I can get a weekend visit without SS breaking something since he refuses to walk in the house. My husband is worthless as SS12 can do no wrong in his eyes. I really don’t know how much more I can take. I’m Seriously Considering divorce.
Everything else in my marriage is great except this brat who we have almost 50 percent of the time. Before I throw in the towel I would like to hear from others on how they Disengage or deal with bratty SS kids. Please don’t say talk to my husband as I’ve done that till I was blue in the face. It’s pointless. I need Suggestions on how to make SS’s visit as painless as I can.
My next question is I’m going to hang in there for another 6 or 7 months. If I find I just can’t take it after that time I want to also be planing my exit. What are some things I can be doing now to make my exit easier?