How old is too old to sleep with dad?
So my 10 year SD has recently started getting really upset at bedtime. She starts crying and saying that her throat/neck/back is sore. DH ends up sleeping with her (on the couch, it makes me uncomfortable when she's in our bed). Isn't 10 a bit old to be sleeping with your dad or am I being harsh? I don't remember sleeping with my dad after I was really little, maybe 4 or 5. I have no suspicions that anything weird is going on at all, just to make it clear.
She also just comes into our bedroom without knocking, even if the door is closed. I'd like her to knock but it's hard to enforce because I have a toddler too, so it's difficult to give different kids different rules. Does anyone else have different sets of rules for kids? I don't want it to seem unfair but I don't feel like I have any privacy.