How to learn to like SD
So me and OH have been together four years now and lived together just over 3. I met his 3 children the day we moved in together and to be honest i was actually quite scared.
The oldest who at the time was 19 and a boy, the middle one a girl who was aged 13 and the youngest who was 9.
I thought i was going to have problems with the older one's but he helped us move in and we got on well, we don't see much of him as he has a job and girlfriend etc but when we do all is fine, even though he is a little quiet.
The middle daughter was quiet to start and spent most of her time on her laptop not saying much at all and that worried me.
The youngest seemed to love me, getting me to do her hair and make up and chatting all the time.
NOW - its all changed. The BM said she was going to get her children to hate me!
Well they are never naughty or rude etc but the youngest i just can't like.
The oldest girl and i get on really well, so much so it is me that she asked about contraception and asked me to take her to the doctors etc we chat about anything and it's really nice.
The youngest is cold and quiet, she doesn't even say hello when they come in or she is forced to say good bye by her dad when she leaves. She doesn't ever ask me for anything food, drink etc she waits for her dad and asks him and that just makes me made as it's my house also.
She just generally doesn't talk to me! Now i know that this isn't her fault, she is told all sorts of poision by her mother and as far as she is concerned her mum can't do wrong whereas the other two know that me and their mum hate each other and don't take any notice of her when she says stuff.
SO i know its not her fault yet i still struggle to like her and look forward to seeing her, in fact i can't wait for her to go!