Holy Moly question about EX in-laws And funerals
Ok I just found out my EX Mother-in-law passed away from old age today. I was friendly with her when I was married to my first husband and would Is it regularly. After my divorce we no longer kelp in touch. I was very close to my ex sister in laws. Now I still see Occasionally see my EX sister in laws who I really liked. One lives in the same Neighborhood as me and we will bump into each other walking the dogs and the other one belongs the same hiking club that I do. If my divorce had been Civil I would most Likely attend at least the wake if not both the wake and funeral. The problem is BOTH my EX and his Wife HATE me. There is a good chance my EX could tell me to leave or at the very least glare at me the whole time I’m there. With all the other bullshit going on in my life I just can’t deal with this so there is no way I’m going to either. (History My EX remarried the woman he cheated on me with and SHE yes SHE not me HATES the very sight of my name. Why? Because she is jealous that his family liked/likes me and really can’t stand her. )
So My questions are number one. Would it even be Appropriate or expected that I would attend either of the wake or the funeral being an ex? I’m only Concerned that my EX sister in laws May be offended if I don’t attend And I really do like them. Plus since I have to see them both Occasionally it will be awkward if they are offended so I want to avoid this at all cost.
Both sisters know I know as one already stopped me when I was walking my dog to tell me PLUS I’m friends with both of them on Facebook and they posted the Obituary. So I can’t pretend I did not know.
How should I handle this? Send a card after?Avoidance and Stay out of sight till after the wake/Funeral?