Help needed. BM always downplays or Counters what DH says in therapy
SS12 started going to see a therapist due to behavioral problems. Both BM and DH attend these appointments once a month. BM and DH go in and talk to the therapist first together without SS to discuss how SS did that week. Then SS12 goes in alone to talk with the therapist.
So during these appointments DH will say how SS is doing at our house. BM always has a negive come back for what DH says. Example...if DH says SS12 has been doing x,y,z at our house BM will come back and say "well SS12 says all he does is watch tv at your house".
Now SS does watch a lot of TV at our house BUT does do other things also. BM makes it sound like that's all he does which is not true.
Now we know BM Quizzes SS on what goes on at our house and who knows what BS SS is telling her.
1. So should we confront SS about what BM said at the appointment so see what he has to say?
2. When BM try's and Discredit what DH says to the therapist what would be a good way to turn it back around on BM or a good come back?
SS is a total spoiled brat. BM can't handle him at her house and he's out of control. Instead of parenting SS BM would rather push for SS to be Diagnosed with some mental disorder and drugged up. This way it takes the heat off her crappy parenting skills AND SS will be easier to handle if he's drugged up. This is the reason BM is trying to Discredit SS "normal" behavior at DH house.