Have You Thought About Doing A DNA On Alleged Child Of Your Spouse/Partner????
This seems to be a bigger problem than people want to accept. I've seen many men who allowed their names on Birth Certificates without paternity being established. My husband was with a gf for a short time, she purposely got pregnant. They split up and he started dating me. Honestly, right away I thought it odd the child didn't look like him. Then a few years later we got married and I moved into his house. Well I was going through the attic, and found boxes filled with old pictures of his ex gf. Many were of her ex, and right away I saw he looked just like the son. And then I remembered he said she was still seeing him he believed when she got pregnant.
This was back in the early 90's and dna wasn't really around, just blood tests I believe. So long story short, I believe he paid for someone else's child. I also found out, there was nothing we could do, because he was already the father on the BC, and today they have a finite time to establish paternity or dispute it.
She took my husband to court once we started having our own children for more money, and myself and the lawyer tried to get him to at least establish whether he was the bio or not, and he wouldn't. Obviously, he didn't want to be embarrassed, and since it wouldn't change anything legally that is why...from his perspective.
Today you can order a dna kit from the internet (reliable lab), and do it without the persons knowledge. I'm wondering if anyone else has had these issues?? For me, I think our children and myself have the right to know. I've heard a lot of these stories, but not too many on this forum.