Have you been torn to shreds on other web-sites?
I am wondering if this has happened to anyone else. I went to a "divorce advice" website to find out, if during the summers when the kids stay with NCP, we could stop CS payments to the CP for that month, as the children were here. I didn't even mention that I thought she should pay us.
Needless to say.....I was torn to shreds. I was an awful money gubbing step-mom who didn't care for my step-kids and was trying to get out of paying CS and I was making up the amounts we pay in CS and flight costs (they accused me of lying). It was quite a shock.
I did find out in the end, that no, there is nothing we can do about it (have to pay her CS when here in the summer), but I feel like as the wife of an NCP you can't say ANYTHING about his finances (which affect you and your family too!) without being treated very badly. Has anyone else had this expereience?