Happy Anniversary to me!
Wow! So the saga continues around here. (No harsh comments please all - I am being mean enough to myself). I've been writing about my DH and HIS issues, let alone the lunatic BM and skids for the past year. Last year I filed for divorce and got a default judgement. There was one little mistake on the final judgement so they sent it back to me, which put the final divorce on hold. In the meantime, DH convinced me to give him one more chance, which I stupidly did. Things were actually pretty good from September to February. BM and the skids are always something of a pain, but we cut off all communication with BM (other than what was necessary) and I put my foot down about having BM's nephew at my house during visitation. SS13 is still undisciplined and I definately don't look forward to him being here, but I could have worked with it.
DH got a great new job, making really good money with an old acquintence of his. Things were really looking up. Then DH decides - hey - why not start drinking again THE NIGHT BEFORE WORK. And hell, why not drink vodka straight from the bottle? He has literally been doing midnight liquour runs (I can hear him leave) and passed out downstairs in the guest room since last Tuesday. I kid you not. So - I have the final judgement corrections made and will be at the courthouse tomorrow. The clerk says the final judgement will take about 2 to 3 weeks - just needs the judge's signature. I gave DH to the end of the month to leave and if he wants to spend that time passed out, then I guess he sleeps in his truck. March 1, I told him I will be pulling a restraining order if he isn't out of my house (already deemed my separate property in the default judgement). Sooner if he comes upstairs and bothers me and DD4. He hasn't up to now though - I am almost finding it interesting to see how long a person can actually sleep around the clock and drink without eating at this point.
Saturday is our second wedding anniversary - I am going to get a massage with my girlfriends:)