Yesterday my FIL came over to help H fix the toilet, he had to replace a seal. When they moved it they ripped the linoleum. When they got done FIL says he has an extra box of tiles from where he redid his bathroom and that he would come over next weekend and redo our bathroom floor. I thought that was very nice of him and told him so but asked if he could wait until I finish redoing the bathroom cabinets. That would take me a couple of days. H doesn't say a thing. Then FIL says he has enough ceramic wall tiles to do the wall behind my stove and he would do that when he did the bathroom floor. Still H says nothing. FIL used to do flooring and walls before he retired. So while we're visiting and having coffee FIL says he would like to redo our kitchen floor for us for Christmas and that I should pick out any kind of tile or other flooring I want. I was speechless, he started measuring and figuring out what he would need and telling us that he would do whatever we wanted to the kitchen. H and I have been talking about redoing the floor for over a year now but he's never gotten around to it. He never gets around to doing anything. I thought it was very generous for FIL to offer to do this for us. Last year he did SIL's whole house in hard wood flooring and remodeled the other SIL's family room and bathroom. Anyway he's making a list of everything he would need and H tells him no. He doesn't want or need his help that he would get around to it someday(never). Even if H doesn't want his father to redo our kitchen I think he should have been a little nicer about it. After his dad left we got into a big argument about it. I told him that he was being an ass about everything and that he should apologize to his dad. Right now he still isn't talking to me or his dad. I think he's being a monkey's butt and a big baby. What do you all think??