Gotta love it - after how many years???
My kids dad basically has never participated in a lot of their life. From when born he never made it to school musicals or parent/teacher conferences. Not a worry or care in the world - I do all the parenting. Work has always been number one...or should I say "HE" has always been number 1. Cause of course he has the most important job in the world that requires him to give up his personal life. (extreme sarcasm) (no he is not a doctor or saving the world) (lol)
Well now my kids are 14 and 16. I have had majority psychical custody since 2008 and he moved 40 minutes away when he left me for his girlfriend. He has them every other weekend and usually gets shortened for some reason.
This past weekend, without my knowledge, he asks them if they want spend 3 days a week with him all summer.....that she can work where he works...and god knows what my 14 year old son is supposed to do while she works the 3 - 10 hour days with him. BTW, he now lives over an hour away from me. The kids obviously rejected the idea but I was pretty bull that he would even bring it up. Since they "no way" want to do that I am not pursuing this with a lawyer. That means money and time and aggravation and bottom line they don't want to go there. I just can't deal with even bringing it up with him cause he is the type that waits to stir the pot and I learned the best reaction is none and he goes away.
What a jerk though!!!
Just had to vent!!!!