a form of disengagement no more gifts
after years of buying gifts that go unappreciated i think of all the good things about disengagement.
now i have more money to spend on myself.
i recall one time is sent a surrprise gift of a kitchen appliance to one sd. she called me up confused as if no one had ever sent her a gift. it is true. bm never sends her anything unless its an occasion and then its really cheap crap. she goes running to dh begging for things and he buys her expensive gives that outshine the gifts of her husband.
i am sure she is using this as she loved to cook but she never said anything about it after a short thank you.
i come across things in my day that i know the skids would love to have and i used to pause thinking of buying it for them. now i just look and think about their selfishness and move on.
more nice things for me!