Ex-wife is a nightmare
My bf and I aren’t married but we’ve been together for several years so I feel like a stepmother to his son. I’ve never had anyone/anywhere to vent to in two years so I’ll try to keep this pretty short.
My bf’s ex is a nightmare. I’ve never met her, she absolutely refuses, but I’ve heard the phone calls and seen the texts and I’ve dealt with her nonsense. Bf just goes along with whatever she says.
- She told him I couldn’t be at her house in his car when he drops his son off so he would drop me off at a gas station (while I was eight months pregnant with our baby) and then pick me up after.
- When I did have our baby and I was in the hospital after surgery, she offered him an extra day with his son (knowing I was in the hospital after the surgery) and he took off and left me at the hospital with our baby who wasn’t even a whole day old yet. She never gives him extra time. It wasn’t his weekend. I was overdue and scheduled a c-sec for a weekend that wasn’t his specifically so he wouldn’t miss time.
- She calls and texts and refers to me only as “your friend”, “that bitch”, or “baby mama”.
-I’m not allowed to go to any of his son’s sporting events because she coaches them all, even on bf’s weekends she is there.
If if I say I’m bothered about any of it he tells me that I’m being crazy and I need to grow up. I don’t know how I feel about this relationship anymore because I always come second to another woman.