From every other weekend to every weekend
I feel so just out of it. I honestly just don't know if I am selfish or what. In an early post I talked about how my SD had been in a mental facility for a while and was begging to come stay with us full time. So to make her feel better my DH said can we do every weekend. I honestly was not ok with this, but just feel like this is a no win situation. It has been a month now and I am ready to just put them both out. SD is 13 and barely cleans up behind herself, is louder than my twin toddlers, and just does as she pleases. This past week she cursed out a teacher, tore up a classroom, and her room at her mom house. DH had to get up and drive over there because she hide a razor and wouldn't give it to her mom. Yet, my DH gives no type of punishment or even addresses it further with her. I am a teacher myself and just can't stand that he is so passive about stuff like this. Now with the every weekend I never get a break on Fridays or time to refocus on Sundays before going back to the classroom. I understand that he is trying to help her issues, but this is just making me feel crazy. I just want some peace in my life. I am always waiting for her to flip out and he has to run over there to help. I am so over it all. I am praying for the Lord to help me with my feelings, but this is just so much harder than I ever anticipated. Any advice on how to deal would be greatly appreciated.