Doing things as a family
Good morning everyone,
I have a question about doing things as a family. Simply put, I don't want to do things when it involves SS14. Anything we attempt to do with SS 14 turns into an absolute nightmare so I would rather not put myself and my daughter in the position to be around his piss poor sulky attention seeking behavior. I honestly cannot think of a single thing that we have done as a family where he hasn't ruined it.
Now I have attempted to explain this to DH because it's pretty obvious I don't want to do things that involve SS14. You can imagine how well that conversation went over. He says if he's going to do some thing with SS, DD is allowed to go and I can just stay home.
1. I dont trust SS14 around DD2. He's sneaky and DH is oblivious. He has ruined her toys and tried to get her to swear. They aren't major things- but they aren't kind things either and I don't want him around her.
2. I said I thought it was messed up he was willing to sacrifice the happiness of his entire family because one person chooses to be miserable time and time again (SS14).
My question- how can I get him to see that his son's behavior ruins family time (he just ignores him when he acts out which cases him to amp it up) and not try and force family things that involve him?