Do you buy gifts so Skids who refuse to be part of your life?
SD12 does not have anything to do with us, BM and SD have both told us to back off. BM said SD hates us, and wants nothing to do with us because we are mean to her and we don't treat her right. Which is a lie but what ever I can't help how some one "feels".
SD talkes to us two time a year,
1. her birthday
Last year we bought her Christmas gifts, and she didn't show up to christmas like she was suppose to, she hates us and we are mean so she didn't want to. But she did ask if we could mail her gifts to her. Which we did or I dropped them off its been a year I forget.
Well last week BM writes me and ask what we got SD, I tell her nothing, I said she hasn't talked to us once this year, and when we reached out were told to back off she hates us. BM got mad and called DH, DH doesn't deal with the drama so he asked me what was going on and I gave him the run down. We have yet to call BM back.
I am to the point SD hates us, she doesn't want to see us. BM tells everyone how awful DH and what a deadbeat he is, so why buy gifts? SD honeslty couldn't care if we all dropped dead tomorrow, and BM would be more than happy. BM can't handle anyone else being happy and SD is the same way.
I know it seems awful that I don't want to buy this kid anything but ever since BM has went over the deepend this child is a stranger to us.
So what should we do
1 Buy gifts and give in
2 Not buy her anything we should be seen as more as that.