Do our SOs/DHs/DFs/ actually LIKE the drama and attention??
I was just reading a post about a psycho BM and how it took a year for the poster's SO to put his foot down in regards to the drama. I have also read many more posts in where the OP's SO/DF/DH have YET to put their foot down as far as BM drama. I know that my DH was putting up with a gi-normous amount of crap from BM until I put MY foot down and said enough!!
Sometimes I wonder if these guys like the drama/attention that they get from BM?? I know that the excuse for the tolerance of BM crap is ususally that they are scared of custody battles, scared of CS going up, just want to peacefully co-exist, etc. But the more I read/see the more I think that some men like the attention.
And as far as bad BM behaviour, I just don't get it.. I can tell you if DH and I split up for some reason, he would be the LAST person I would want to talk to, text, ask for advice ANYTHING! I do have a life and my dignity.... I guess that's what these women are lacking?? (in addition to a few million brain cells)