Do I allow SS13 over?
DH has taken up residence in my downstairs guest room and will be moving out in February. I gave him 60 days to find a place of his own. In the meantime, do I allow SS13 to come over or not? It would be EOW and a week at Xmas. After his horrible behavior last weekend, and all of the name calling, subtle jabs at me, and teaching my DD4 filthy words, I am leaning towards no. What do you think? DH isn't paying rent (he is working on my house 8 hours a week to reimburse me for food/utilities) and it is MY house. On the other hand, I can tell DH that if there is ANY more behavior like last weekend, SS13 absolutely won't come over again and that compromise will likely make things easier until he leaves. In terms of getting him to cooperate on our taxes, etc. However, before he moved back in with me in September, our agreement was that SS13 wouldn't come over until April 2013 and he agreed to that. I allowed him to have him over because I felt bad and that was a really bad idea. So - not having SS13 over was already agreed up anyways. DH can always visit him in his town during the week. What will happen is that BM will be PISSED and then DH will end up stressed out and taking it out on me (I don't really care though).
I've already decided that he won't be coming over here for the week of Xmas because I have that week off and I want to enjoy myself. He can come over the week of New Years, which is really when he is supposed to be here anyway. Any thoughts on this?