dh wanted to go out of town for fun!
So sd was here yesterday and was going to be leaving to get mom's in the evening. And dh had to run to the office (his warehouse) and his dad was there. Well he called me from the office to tell me his dad wanted him to go out of town with him for a little one day trip. Wtf!why the hell would he even ask to do this? I gave him a chance to come to his senses I asked him "don't you have something you have to do?" He drew a blank "uh, no?", "don't you need to spend time with your DAUGHTER?", he was all like, "I thought yall were going to the movies" (which I was going to take sd with me because I'd rather spend time when dh has to work in a theater where everyone has to be quiet and nobody can cause trouble for a few hours than risk what may happen). "Yes dh, but the movie only lasts for maybe 2 hours."
What the hell is his deal! This is why I end up picking up his slack. Sd feels abandoned when her father is right here! Now he wants to go out of town during his time? What an ass hole! Sd is taking out her anger on dh on me and dh doesn't do anything about it, and I am trying to disengage from the discipline so I can't really do anything. But she should be allowed to do things that she's been doing (another post entirely)