Dh has been mopey ever since sd said she doesn't like it here.
Ugh, i hate that sd has so much control at my house. Ive not only try not to be alone with her, but im constantly walking on egg shells with her. Anything i say is carefully crafted as to not upset her.
I reminded dh last night, in hopes to help him get over her words, that im sure sd is feeling "something", but that she isn't sure what it is, and that she's just pointing fingers at everyone in hopes to make herself feel better.
I didn't want to discount her emotions or feelings, but at the same time, i wanted to remind him that he's been making every effort to spend as much time with her as possible, he's been bending over backwards to make sure she has the ability to spend time with her friends, everyone's been walking on eggshells around her trying to make her feel part of the family and at the same time not ever offend her with any thing they say.
I just get so tired of it all. I get tired of her control over my home and dh's heart (it's his daughter i know she has control over his heart, but she's so reckless with it), i get tired of not feeling like this is my house when she's here. I hate the havoc she creates.
Dh will not only visit her outside the home. He's afraid it will cause her more heartache. So my plans, take my kids somewhere all day on the weekends she's here. And leave her home or insist that dh take her with him when he works if he's working to spend some much one on one needed daddy daughter time.