DH had finally had dinner with SD16
Long story short, SD left at the beginning of the month and refused to visit(DH's extended period of possession), she's been too busy for DH. Now DH was able to go have dinner with her. Shortly after he gets back from dinner with her she texts him
"I'd like to come back and start visiting EOWE in August"
DH responds without asking me "sure baby, that's fine"
When he tells me, i tell him, "I really don't want to feel like i have to walk around on egg shells in my own home. It's been really calm around here lately."
DH- "I know, I don't either"
Me- "Don't forget DD17s birthday is coming up, and I think it should be her decision on if SD16 attends, especially since all SD's attacks was towards her."
DH- "i agree, I'll talk to DD17 about it"
Me- "I don't want DD17 to feel guilty about it if she doesn't want SD there. Her feelings were really hurt"
DH- "I agree"
I DON'T want SD here, but DH has been soooo depressed. I HATE how SD always comes back from the friggen tantrums like nothing even happened. As I'm typing this I'm literally having a panic attack. I don't want my husband to be completely depressed.